I just don't know ...

...What it is about folks. They need to 'big' themselves up to everyone. Do some folks think they suck so badly that no one will actually like the real person inside? Is this an indictment of society at large? Should I be ashamed to let the world know that I make less than a Macdonalds fry cook even tho I have a wonderful degree? What is it about people?

We work to have them in our lives, but we slam who ever leaves the room first. We are quick to pass judgment out loud, and then proceed to lie about ourselves. 

I honestly don't think there is a cure for this. All we can do is become aware and maybe do a little bit of forced therapy.

I have an idea - let's all take a page from that annoying facebook thing floating around (25 facts about me - bullshit I'm sure). Forget the 25 facts and self bigging...  Next time your in conversation make a point to be completely honest on just one thing about yourself. We can't handle 25 things... the world isn't ready and a fair bit of what we put out there is simply gilded bullshit for the masses in any case.

Your wife loves you - your dog thinks your lovely. The boss will always think you work slower than you are actually doing. Your mom loves you no matter what...

So let's try this - let's be honest. Just once, for one brief statement. 

I'll start - 'I would rather have another beer than sit here and chat. I have gas and I need to be alone for 5 minutes before I enter the pain stage....'

See?

Love,

Lxxxx